On The Matterr

Happy Thanksgiving!

Fri, 24 Nov 2023 19:04:19 GMT

Join me in this episode as I reflect on the year with gratitude. Sharing two profound things I am grateful for. Tune in for a solo Thanksgiving episode filled with heartfelt appreciation and personal reflections. �� #GratitudeJourney #OntheMatterrPodcast #newepisode #podcastepisode #podcastupdate

Your Story, Your Strategy - How to start a successful business from nothing with Jordi Foster

Tue, 14 Nov 2023 19:03:24 GMT

Embark on the compelling journey of commercial photographer and brand strategist, Jordi Foster. Join us as he reveals the secrets behind launching a successful photography business and the profound impact of storytelling in crafting a powerful brand narrative.

Faith In Action (How Dr. Chikera Beckford started an Entire University with Nothing)

Thu, 09 Nov 2023 19:02:38 GMT

Dive into the incredible journey of Dr. Chikera Beckford, the visionary founder of Exousia University, as she shares her inspiring story of creating a new educational frontier.

I also share a special Announcements towards the end of the podcast! Don't miss this inspiring episode on On the Matterr!

Check Out Exousia University at http://exousiau.com or on instagram @exousia_university

#EducationInnovation #ExousiaUniversity #PodcastEpisode

Let’s Catch Up, Shall we?

Sun, 29 Oct 2023 18:01:14 GMT

��️ Let's Catch Up, Shall We? Join me on a journey as I open up about where I've been, my current endeavors, and what exciting projects are on the horizon. It's a long overdue episode you won't want to miss! #OnTheMatter #PodcastUpdate #NewEpisode

The Power of Positivity! How the Right Attitude Landed me a new job (I wasn't even looking for)!

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 13:42:32 GMT

I'm constantly accused of being deliriously optimistic, AND I CAN'T HELP IT! Life is not always easy but there's something about having a positive deposition that not only makes tough times bearable, it has a way of blessing you when you least expect it. For the last episode of the season, I share how having a positive attitude, blessed me in ways, I couldn't have imagined.

Reference:
Stack Your Deck: https://www.amazon.com/Stack-Your-Deck-Business-Life/dp/B0BW2X9DHZ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1NWYFGROPU1CN&keywords=stack+your+deck+book+john+thompson+iii&qid=1687143105&sprefix=stack+your+%2Caps%2C86&sr=8-1

Male Voices Matterr: A Special Anniversary Episode

Sun, 11 Jun 2023 10:51:10 GMT

On the Matterr's 3-year anniversary episode is here! Join us as we celebrate with a collection of all the amazing male guests who have graced our podcast. Tune in now to hear their inspiring stories and insights.

Unveiling the Power of Patience: Nurturing Tenacity and Resilience on the Path to your Matterr's Success

Sun, 04 Jun 2023 10:51:10 GMT

One of the hardest parts of staying on your matterr is having the patience and tenacity to keep going when everything says you shouldn't. I've been there, in fact, I live in and out of this feeling all the time. In this episode, I share the importance of patience and why it's important for your Matterr's success.

What I learned from a Successful Retired Couple

Sun, 21 May 2023 10:51:09 GMT

In the episode, Oby shares what she learned from a retired couple celebrating their 35 wedding anniversary!

Enjoy!

Happy Mother's Day!

Sun, 14 May 2023 19:45:00 GMT

Join me on this special Mother's Day episode of the Matterr podcast, where I share stories about the incredible impact my moms have had on my life. Tune in for a heartwarming tribute to the women who shaped me into who I am today.

Outsource Your Way to Your Matterr's Success

Sun, 07 May 2023 23:42:50 GMT

In this episode, Oby dives into the world of outsourcing and how it can help you pursue your passions. Discover the benefits of delegating tasks and freeing up your time to focus on what you do best. Tune in for valuable insights and practical tips on how outsourcing can take your goals to the next level.

The Power of Perseverance: Why It's Essential for Success

oby.chiapa@gmail.com (Oby Chiapa) — Sun, 30 Apr 2023 19:53:14 GMT

"New beginnings! �� As the On the Matterr podcast community and episode downloads continue to grow, it's time to reintroduce herself! In this episode, Oby shares her passion for perseverance and why it's crucial for success in life. Join her as she explores the power of determination and the impact it can have on our lives. Let's dive in and keep pushing forward towards our goals! #OnTheMatterr #Perseverance #Success"

Consistency over Perfection! Why Consistency is more Important than Expertise (with Kobina deGraft-Johnson)

Sun, 23 Apr 2023 19:53:47 GMT

In this podcast episode, Oby interviews Kobina deGraft-Johnson, an Oscar Award Winning Film Maker (affirm it) and founder of Anibok Studios. Kobina started his career as an accountant in a top-tier NYC Accounting firm but discovered his passion for photography after taking some photos at a happy hour event. This led him to start his own movie production company and relocate back to Ghana. Since then he has been growing his brand in Ghana and here in the U.S.

In the episode, Kobina shares his journey, talks about why he believes Africa is the future, and offers encouraging words for aspiring artists and entrepreneurs. Listeners can follow Kobina on Instagram @anibokstudios to keep up with his projects and casting calls.

TIME TO WIN! Motivational Quotes for Success! The OTM Mixtape VOL. 2

Sun, 16 Apr 2023 19:54:08 GMT

It’s ALMOST O’Day!

To celebrate her second birthday since the Podcast started, Oby is giving out the gift of inspiration. The On the Matterr Mixtape is PACKED with inspiring quotes and moments from guests GUARANTEED to motivate you into your greatness.

ENJOY!

Say "Yes!" to your Matterr - How to Overcome the Fear of Failure with Akumu Fiona

Sun, 09 Apr 2023 19:54:34 GMT

Akumu Fiona is a multi-talented artist, writer, content creator, and podcaster who uses her channel as a platform for daily creativity and unique self-expression. She is one of the most inspiring podcasters out there, and her work is a testament to the power of creativity. Tune in to her podcast to discover the magic of self-expression and the beauty of the creative process.

Keep with Akumu everyone at @IamAkumuFiona and check out the Yes Girls Podcast at https://www.youtube.com/@yesgirlspodcast/videos or https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yes-girls-podcast/id1657394317

Living the Dream (w. Emeka Madueke)

Sun, 02 Apr 2023 19:54:51 GMT

Get ready for another funny and insightful conversation on the latest episode! This week, Oby sits down with Emeka Madueke, the brilliant mind behind the "Lagos Livn" appeal line, to discuss all things design and innovation. Tune in now!

Support Emeka and his great line at Lagoslivn.com and on instagram at @lagoslivn

How to Stay Organized in a Chaotic World with Chanda-Louise Oton

Sun, 26 Mar 2023 19:55:04 GMT

To close of 2023 Women's History Month, Oby is joined by sister girl and OTM pod guest fav: Chanda-Louise Oton as they discuss how to Stay Motivated in a Chaotic World.

Enjoy!

Keep up with Chanda at https://chandalouiseoton.com and to book an awesome strategy call, please click here: https://bookwithchanda.as.me/schedule... and on instagram @chandalouiseoton

The Power of Vulnerability (A followup conversation from last week's episode) with Chinonyelum Udoye

Sun, 19 Mar 2023 19:55:21 GMT

Following Oby's emotional outburst last week, she checks in again with her sister, Chinonyelum Udoye to discuss Vulnerability, how it affects one's #matterr and ways to deal with the judgement that comes with being vulnerable.

References
Intro clip from Brent Brown pulled from: https://youtu.be/e257BL851Uw
Emotion Wheel - https://www.amazon.com/VROCUSE-Feelings-Acrylic-Counselor-Counseling/dp/B0BNFTQ28M/ref=sr_1_7?keywords=emotion+wheel&qid=1679263786&sprefix=emotion+we%2Caps%2C79&sr=8-7

How to Overcome Difficult Seasons w. Chinonyelum Udoye

Sun, 12 Mar 2023 19:55:37 GMT

The episode this week is raw, honest and transparent as Oby breaks down about how hard it's been staying on all her #Matterrs. While her big sister (author, speaker, life coach and podcast guest fav), Chinonyelum Udoye offers encouragement and suggestions on best practices to get through it.

Enjoy!

Thank You Queens - A Women's History Month Love Letter

Sun, 05 Mar 2023 20:55:49 GMT

Happy International Women's Week My Queens!

To celebrate you and all you do, Oby drops a quick love note to say Thank you for all you do. Enjoy.

Show Up for Yourself (An OTM Check-In Conversation with Guest Fav, Christine Robinson)

Sun, 26 Feb 2023 20:56:10 GMT

In this week's podcast, Oby checks in with an OTM Podcast guest favorite, Christine Robinson, founder of Angella Irving Skincare!

It's been two years since their initial podcast episode, which is available here if you missed it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ATbBuhofw6U

Oby and Chris catch up on everything from life to near career paths to the struggle to keep our matters afloat!

Christine intro - 3:28
Status of her #Matterr - 7:08
New #Matterr - 11:14
Hardest Part of Keeping Business afloat - 20:31
BIG WIN - Biggest Order Yet - 22:05
Affirmation of the Episode - 29:45
Combating Negativity - 30:30
Advice for People about to start a #matterr - 40:19

Keep up with Chris on IG @angellaIrving

From Plans to Purpose w. Neron Adams-Escalera

Sun, 19 Feb 2023 20:56:26 GMT

On the pod this week, Oby speaks with Neron Adams-Escalera.

Neron Adams-Escalera is originally from Brooklyn, NY but was raised in South Orange, NJ. He went to St. Benedict’s Preparatory school in Newark, NJ, where he played soccer, eventually making All-American.
He originally wanted to practice law, and execute contracts, so he earned an undergrad degree in Business Law from Temple University and a Master of Public Administration from CUNY Baruch.

His love for cooking and hosting parties led him to culinary school, and today, he is the founder and CEO of Foodies LLC (aka Foodies DMV).

Tune in to hear all about how the pivotal moments in his life made him turn his passion into a legitimate business!

Keep up with Neron on Instagram at @therealneron and @foodies_dmv and on Facebook: Neron Adams-Escalera and Twitter @foodiesLLC

Background - 3:09
Career - 7:30
Becoming a Chef - 11:00
Culinary School - 13:25
The Science of Cooking - 15:05
Learning the Business of Cooking. - 17:00
Biggest Learning - 22:00
Building a Team - 24:00
OTM Quote - 33:39

Mental Health As it Relates to Black History w. Dr. Joan Samuels-Dennis

Sun, 12 Feb 2023 15:00:29 GMT

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You Can Still Conquer Your 2023 Resolutions! HERE'S HOW!

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 15:01:07 GMT

Already given up on 2023? Oby is BACK with the motivation you need to SUCCEED in honoring yourself and your resolutions this year and beyond!

Reference:
https://m.economictimes.com/news/how-to/six-reasons-why-your-new-year-resolutions-dont-work/amp_articleshow/88658576.cms

Immigrant Manifesto - How to Succeed in a Foreign Country w. Obi Odenigbo

Sun, 18 Dec 2022 15:03:39 GMT

Looking to transition smoothly into a new school, dream job, industry, or even country? I got you the cheat codes!

In this episode, I speak with Engineer and Author Obi Odenigbo as he shares steps and personal stories that helped me go from earning $10 an hour to a 6-figure salary in less than ten years. Keep up with him on IG at @theonlyobi

His must-read book can be found on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/Immigrant-Manifesto-Mindset-Corporate-Migrant-ebook/dp/B07TTRV76P/ref=sr_1_1?crid=BGN1L16FBX22&keywords=obi+odenigbo&qid=1671391670&sprefix=obi+oden%2Caps%2C102&sr=8-1

ENJOY

Bridging the Gap between Faith and Mental Health w. Omotoke Adewale

Sun, 04 Dec 2022 15:06:29 GMT

On the pod, this week is my sistergirl OMOTOKE ADEWALE. Toke is a marriage & family therapist. Growing up, she felt like she didn't quite fit in (she was born in Nigeria and moved to the States at a young age).

Over time, her experiences (navigating her cultural identities) and her Christian faith brought her into the mental health field to create a "ripple effect".

Today, she is the founder of Uprooted Community and the host of the Uprooted Community Podcast. "Uprooted" signifies the intentional act of unlearning/uprooting the familiar, harmful, & toxic ways we've learned to be and instead relearning & replanting ourselves into a healthy, thriving place.

This podcast conversation is over one year in the making, and I am so excited to bring it to fruition finally! ENJOY

Keep up with Toke's incredible work on IG @_up.rooted_ and subscribe to her podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/uprooted-f-a-m/id1532679444?i=1000580885538

The Power of Gratitude featuring Chinonyelum Udoye, Chanda-Louise Oton and Omotoke Adewale

Wed, 23 Nov 2022 15:10:00 GMT

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, OTM FAMILY!

In the spirit of Gratitude, I've decided to have a Sister-Circle Conversation featuring my Big Sister Chinonyelum (Chichi) Udoye as well as my Sister-Girls Chanda-Louise Oton and Omotoke Adewale. In this episode, I asked about everything from what we are grateful for to what we are thankful to get rid of this year. This hilarious and uplifting conversation is filled with laughter, lessons, and TANTRUMS (thrown mainly by Yours Truly)

Enjoy!

Timestamp

Q1. What are you looking forward to the most this thanksgiving?
Chanda - 5:14
Chi - 12:20
Omotoke - 13:11
Me - 14:01

Q2. What happened to you specifically this year that you are most grateful for?
Chi - 15:06
Omotoke - 17:40
Chanda - 21:18
Me - 26:40

Q3. What is a stressor you are grateful to put behind you this year?
Me - 31:20
Omotoke - 35:10

TANGENT #1 - 38:50

Chi - 40:00
Chanda - 43:13

TANGENT #2 - 46:00

Q4. What is a hard lesson you are grateful you have learned this year?
Chanda - 1:01:10
Omotoke - 1:02:15

Q5. Advice for People Struggling this Season
Chi - 1:15:02
Chanda - 1:18:50
Omotoke - 1:20:19

Resources
Become a Manifesting Machine : https://read.amazon.com/kp/kshare?asin=B097P7C6K7&id=bddtpvdhvrdj5f2imqbz2r4ese&reshareId=JN40F8V641FDVQ6H7V25&reshareChannel=system

Fully You: Unlocking the Power of All You Really Are: https://read.amazon.com/kp/kshare?asin=B079M6Y6HZ&id=bewiz45fmbh5zd4b2afrpo4iaa&reshareId=WA9PR2ECV8M7METKXH84&reshareChannel=system

The Power to Forgive: https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/29950

Be Undeniable - How to Position Yourself for the Career of Your Dreams w. Cassie Ademola

Mon, 05 Sep 2022 14:12:24 GMT

This week on the podcast is Career Polisher and Senior Human Resources Leader, Cassie Ademola! In order to please her Nigerian parents, Cassie chose to study Nursing. However after taking classes, she realized that it didn’t fulfill her spirit. Divinely led, she switched to Human Resources Management and has since worked in every industry from entertainment to tech!

Today, she is the founder of My Professional Agenda, a firm with a goal to effectively position new and experienced professionals to obtain the career and life they desire.

Check out our conversation where she shares tips and tricks on how to BE UNDENIABLE!

Enjoy

Keep up with Cassie on IG at @myprofessionalagenda and on LinkedIn: Cassie Ademola

Dealing with Feedback - In 4 Easy Steps

Sun, 28 Aug 2022 14:13:11 GMT

The fear of judgement/criticism/negative feedback has killed more #matters than actual failure from that matterr ever would.

In the episode, I highlight 4 steps to help you deal with feedback (positive or negative) in order to keep you on your mattress and slay them.

ENJOY!

Reference:
Brent Brown's TEDTALK on Vulnerability - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCvmsMzlF7o

Affirm Your Life! # Affirmations to manifest Your BEST LIFE!

Sun, 21 Aug 2022 14:13:58 GMT

This week on the podcast, I share 3 affirmations that'll help you manifest the life of your dreams! Trust me, THESE WORK!

Enjoy!

Jet Set Your Mindset - How to Go from Self Doubt to Self Made with Mounfiq Raiyan Abu

Sun, 14 Aug 2022 14:17:00 GMT

This week's podcast feature is Leadership and Mindset Reset Coach Mounfiq Raiyan Abu. Mounfiq was born in Benin City, Nigeria, and moved with her family to Lagos at age 2. At 19, she experienced a tragedy that not only changed her life as she knew it but also pushed her to take charge of everyone and everything involved.

This experience became a pivotal moment in her life. Today, she is the founder of MRA Consulting, a firm on a mission to ensure that 5 million working mothers who feel stuck and experiencing self-doubt discover the proven framework of THE AUDACITY TO LEAD and use it to ELEVATE and DOMINATE despite adversity.

Tune in to hear all about it. Enjoy!

Keep up with Mounfiq on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/raiyan_inspires/ or on her website https://mounfiqraiyanabu.com

Be sure to check out her course:

The Audacity to Lead
The Self Esteem Accelerator
Mastering Skills to Pay Your Bills

"I don't Do Basic" - The Importance of Pushing Yourself Towards Success w. Stacey-Ann Taylor Part 1

Sun, 07 Aug 2022 14:19:38 GMT

On the podcast this week, it is an honor and blessing to speak with Trademark Attorney and Entrepreneur Stacey-Ann Taylor. Stacey-Ann was more in Jamaica and raised in New York. At age 11, she decided to become a lawyer (which she credits to Phylicia Rashad's character, Clair Huxtable from the Cosby Show). Today is the proud owner of The Law Office of Stacey-Ann Taylor, offering trademark registration and other essential business law services for entrepreneurs. She also hosts the weekly Atlanta Entrepreneur's Legal Podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon.

This 2 PART conversation is one that I have been trying to have for 2 YEARS, and I am so happy because it was so worth the wait!

In Part 1, we discuss everything from Stacey-Ann's origin story to Beyonce's new album, but most importantly, she drops profound GEMS on why you have to push past your comfort zone for the success you deserve!

Keep up with Stacey-Ann on Instagram and TikTok on https://www.instagram.com/staceyanntaylorlaw/

I don't Do Basic - The Importance of Pushing Yourself Towards Success w. Stacey-Ann Taylor Part 2

Sun, 07 Aug 2022 14:18:46 GMT

In Part 2 of my conversation with Stacey-Ann Taylor, she talks shop! Tune in to hear unpopular (but necessary) truths about entrepreneurship, trademarking and her OTM quote that will change your life forever!

You Are Dreaming too Small!

Sun, 31 Jul 2022 14:21:46 GMT

I didn't know it then, but I watched one of my friends manifest her WAEC result! In this episode, I share how it happened and how that taught me to STOP DREAMING SMALL!

Mindvalley Interview with Vishen Lakhani & Patrick Grove:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHbBAe0E2lQ

Mindvalley Talks Youtube Chanel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/MindvalleyTalks

How to Heal and Re-Parent Your Inner Child For the Life of Your Dreams w. Lisa May Francisco

Sun, 17 Jul 2022 14:23:22 GMT

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Q&A

Tue, 12 Jul 2022 14:24:02 GMT

"Where've you been?" "What's going on with the podcast?" "Whatchu been up to?" Ask no more, OBY IS BACK with a brand new season!

In this episode, she answers ALL your questions about where she's been the past 6 months (the nerve!!) and what you can expect from the new season!

Enjoy!

The OTM Mixtape Vol. 1

Mon, 18 Apr 2022 14:25:34 GMT

It’s O’Day!

To commemorate her birthday this year, Oby is giving out the gift of inspiration. The On the Matterr Mixtape is 8 minutes and 59 seconds of inspiring quotes and moments from guests of the first season, proven to motivate you into your greatness.

Check Your Thief (with Taiwo Togun, Ph.D)

Sun, 30 Jan 2022 15:27:30 GMT

To officially close out the "Season of Men," I interview one of the most intelligent people I know: Taiwo Togun, Ph.D.

Born and raised in Ibadan, Nigeria, to a family of educators, Taiwo is an Innovation Consultant with the African Center for Innovation & Leadership Development and a former Research Scientist with the University of California, San Francisco. He is co-founder and CEO of SeqHub, a company that serves the genomics space by match-making and connecting the untapped supply of Data Scientists with research labs that need help analyzing their genomics data. In addition, Dr. Togun holds a faculty position at Pierrepont School, Connecticut, where he teaches Computer Science and Mathematics to middle and high school students.

Keep up with Taiwo on linkedin at https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatogun/

Resources:
https://www.seqhubanalytics.com
https://www.amazon.com/Minute-Think-Reclaim-Creativity-Busyness-ebook/dp/B08NPR6JC3

PART 2 - Todaying: How to Make the Most of Each Day w. Chinonyelum Udoye, Akuezumkpa Chiapa & Latoya Broodie

Sun, 23 Jan 2022 15:28:57 GMT

This week, I'm back with Part 2 of my sister-circle conversation with my sister girls: Chinonyelum Udoye, Akuezumkpa Chiapa, and Latoya Broodie!

In this next (and final) part, we discussed what we were doing to show up as our best selves this year. So ENJOY, and please let me know what you think in the comments!

Resources mentioned:
https://www.mindvalley.com

OTM Sister Circle: Todaying: How to Make the Most of Each Day with Chinonyelum Udoye, Akuezumkpa Chiapa, and Latoya Broodie

Sun, 16 Jan 2022 15:31:21 GMT

Kicking off the new year with my first ever Sister Circle Conversation!! Tune in to hear my chat with my sister-girls: Chinonyelum Udoye, Akuezumkpa Chiapa, and Latoya Broodie, as we catch up on how 2021 ended and share how 2022 has been thus far.

Service to Humanity (From Nollywood to the U.S. Army w. Emeka Odenigbo)

Sun, 12 Dec 2021 15:34:23 GMT

On the pod, this week is Emeka Odenigbo.

Emeka was born in Benin City, Edo State. After graduating with a bachelor's in Electrical Engineering, he went on a quest to stand out. This quest led him to sets of Nollywood movies as an actor and then ultimately to the U.S. Army in Service to Country.

In the conversation, Emeka shares growing up, his parents' influence on his life choices, and how powerful the mind is over every matterr.

Enjoy!

Origin Story - 3:08
Family - 4:00
Nollywood - 7:33
Joining the U.S. Army - 17:04
His OTM - 45:13

The Commonsense of Sacrifice (with Rob Lawless)

Mon, 06 Dec 2021 20:37:26 GMT

He listens to stories of people for a living, here’s your chance to listen to his story.

On the pod this week, Rob Lawless!

Rob is a Philadelphia, Pennsylvania native. He graduated with a Bachelors in Finance with a minor in Accounting and Entrepreneurship and went on to get a job at Deloitte.

On paper he was doing great and checking off all of the right boxes, but internally, Rob struggled with the path his life was taking.

Determined to live a life of impact, while honing into his affinity for community and his love for people, In 2015, he launched his project called Robs 10k Friends with a mission to 10,000 people one on one for an hour each.

6 years later, he has talked to 4962 people (at the point of this post), has been featured on NBC, Ryan Seacrest, Kelly Clarkson to mention a few and it still going strong!

Tune in to hear all about his incredible journey!

Be sure to keep up with Rob on IG at https://www.instagram.com/robs10kfriends/ @Robs10kfriends

The Beauty of Persistence (w. Kerry Blu)

Sun, 28 Nov 2021 20:39:59 GMT

On the pod this week, I am blessed to speak with a staple in the NYC music and art scene: Kerry Blu!

Kerry grew up performing in the youth step team of his church. He went to college intending to study pre-med but realized that work needed to succeed in the field didn't connect with him.

Today, he is a singer, songwriter, and the founder of the Empire State Music & Arts Festival. Having opened for Tory Lanez, Kota the Friend, and Dave East in prestigious venues such as New York's The Knitting Factory and The Bowery Electric, Kerry has garnered thousands of streams and connected with audiences all over the world! His latest album, "The Game is the Game," broke 5000+ plays in its first two weeks, and Kerry Blu shows no signs of slowing down!

Kerry shares his growing journey, self-realization, and careful observation, portraying the world he encounters through raw and honest lyricism. ENJOY!

Keep up with Kerry on IG at @kerryblumusic and @empirestatemusicfest and download his new album at https://www.kblumusic.org

Happy Thanksgiving!

Sun, 21 Nov 2021 20:40:51 GMT

On the pod, this week is me, myself and you guessed it, I ��.

In the spirit of Thanksgiving (here in the States), I wanted to cut through the "Season of Men" to THANK everyone in this community for being a part of it and also, share all the beautiful things I am grateful for!

ENJOY!
Link to the song I sang is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OzU_jT7Y_JA

Pushing Your Boundaries (w. Jerald Watson)

Sun, 14 Nov 2021 20:42:54 GMT

On the pod, this week is Jerald Watson!

Jerald is an urbanist born in Parkchester, New York, raised by his mom, a singer and dancer (with a #1 song on the BILLBOARD CHARTS at the time)! Kin on education, in middle school, she enrolled him in "Prep for Prep," a program designed to bridge the gap between public schools and Ivy League Universities.

His fascination with the City led him to pursue his B.S. in Urban and Regional Planning from Cornell University. Today am pursuing an MPP from Harvard Kennedy School and an MBA from Harvard Business School (at the same time)!

Outside of work, Jerald is the freelance portrait and documentary photographer whose work showcases the beauty and vigor of Black life. Today he is the owner of Jerald Watson Photo.

Our conversation covered his life growing up, urbanism, gentrification, Predatory Inclusion, redlining, and the importance of pushing your boundaries!

Keep up with Jerald @jeraldwatsonphoto and on linked at https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeraldwatson/

ENJOY!

Origin Story - 2:01

His Mom - 4:04

Middle School - 5:11

Leaning into Hip-hop - 10:40

Urban Planning - 14:00

Professional experience - 21:10

Predatory Inclusion - 28:30

Redlining - 29:00

Harvard - 39:50

Having ADHD - 46:01

OTM - 56:29

Appreciating the Journey (w. Tochukwu Onyebuchi)

Sun, 07 Nov 2021 20:44:01 GMT

On the podcast this week is one of my dearest friends in the world: Tochukwu Onyebuchi.

Tobz grew up in Enugu, Nigeria being a problem child and trouble maker (his words, not mine). So much so that his parents sent him off to the UK to make something of himself. A decision that has definitely paid off immensely because today, not only he is a successful Civil Engineer (who has worked on major projects in the industry) but he is also the founder and one of the hosts of the Fresh Off The Boat Podcast!

This conversation covers some of our fondest memories of our lives back home, Tochukwu’s brutally honest story about his transition to his new life in the UK and how he came to create and grow his podcast!

Keep up with Tobz on IG @stilltobz and his podcast @freshofftheboatpodcast. His podcast is also available on YouTube at https://youtube.com/c/FOTBNetwork ENJOY!

Timestamp

Original story - 9:00
Moving to the UK - 14:40
Becoming a Civil Engineer - 17:09
Podcasting - 21:52
His OTM Quote - 43:45

"Why Not Me?" Workplace Trauma and How to Overcome It (w. Errol Olton)

Sun, 31 Oct 2021 19:46:04 GMT

Errol Olton is an Organizational Strategist who uses an energetic and inclusive approach towards building high-performing teams.

He went to school for Health Care Administration and then transitioned into Education, where he created Educational Programs for people in low-income communities.

He believes that a vision statement should live beyond a wall poster instead of being embodied in each staff member's values, actions, and measured progress towards their goals. So, in 2020, Errol led a TEDx Talk where he emphasized the importance of seeing "the faces behind the data," finding meaning beyond numerical statistics, inspiring companies to re-imagine their impact. Today, he is the Founder of The Resume Tailor, a career coaching company that provides resume writing, performance coaching, and team-building workshops.

Errol is brilliant, honest, and hilarious! TUNE IN to hear all about his fascinating story and resilience, and enjoy a free coaching session! Keep up with Errol on IG at @NYresumetailor and @ErrolOlton He is also available on Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/eolton/, and his TEDx Talk can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkPU0ziAI_Y

Background - 2:10
TEDx Talk - 7:00
The Resume Tailor - 15:50
Do Resumes Still Work? - 45:40
Workplace Trauma and How to Overcome it - 48:14
OTM Quotes -

Tales of a Confident Young God (w. Rodney Omeokachie)

Sun, 24 Oct 2021 19:48:24 GMT

This week's guest is Rodney Omeokachie, a renowned Photographer (featured in Vogue Magazine), a Brand Strategist, and the host of one of my favorite podcasts; The Young God.

Rodney (named after the legendary Rodney King) was born to stand out. Literally. Born in South Korea and later moving to South Africa much later, he grew up the only black person in most spaces.

He had an affinity for drawing and visual art from a young age, but it was not encouraged because it was not considered real. Determined to make his way, Rodney stood his ground and stuck to his ideals and principles.

Rodney's story is fascinating, hilarious, and inspiring. Tune in to find out why! ENJOY ��

Keep up with Rodney on IG at @rodneyavo https://www.instagram.com/rodneyavo/ and his podcast on @theyounggodpod https://www.instagram.com/theyounggodpod/ Please subscribe to his podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-young-god/id1378596840 and please please please, if you are in Abuja, Nigeria, Rodney is hosting a
Listening Party on October 30, 2021 to Launch Season 5 of his podcast, cop your tix here: https://tix.africa/yngdlp

Background - 3:10
How he picked his major - 7:40
Autodidact - 9:00
Stood out in the worst way - 11:00
Cultivating a sense of confidence - 15:30
The Young God Podcast - 22:05
Featured in Vogue - 23:39
Motivation - 33:10
His OTM Quotes - 36:40

Conquering Your Mental Wellness without A Therapist (w. Jason Phillips)

Sun, 17 Oct 2021 19:50:28 GMT

Oby is back like she never left with the Season of Men! She received a lot of requests for more conversations with men who are "On their Matterr"! So much so that she decided to dedicate an entire season to it!

Kicking us off is her conversation with the Confidence Expert, Jason Phillips. Jason is from Detroit and grew up curious about how the mind works. His curiosity led him to get a Bachelors' in Psychology and a Masters' in Social Work. He started his career as a Grief and Loss counselor working at a hospice, and today is owns his practice called: Peace & Prosperity.

In our conversation, Jason talks about his incredible journey thus far and drops a lot of gems about Mental Wellness and things we can all do to be more confident! Jason is on Instagram at @jphillipsmsw https://www.instagram.com/jphillipsmsw/ or on his website at https://jasonlphillips.com ENJOY!

3:13 - Introduction

13:00 - Men and Mental Wellness

15:50 - How to Normalize Therapy

20:39 - Taking control over your mental Wellness with seeing a therapist

29:20 - Find the right therapist

38:00 - How to encourage people to see a therapist

44:00 - Learn more about his podcast: Peace & Prosperity

46:00 - His OTM Quote

Resources:
Link to Cards here: https://mytherapycards.shop/

Lead with Impact (w. Laci McKinney)

Sun, 09 May 2021 19:54:08 GMT

My next and last guest of this season of the podcast is Laci McKinney! Laci has a Bachelors in Kinesiology, a Masters in Exercise Physiology, and another Masters in Administration. Over the years, Laci has expressed her creativity in multiple forms example, as a personal trainer, fitness coach, PR & Marketing expert, and even podcaster! She is also an active learner who enjoys learning new things and enjoys teaching people. Today, she is the founder of The People's Voice Creative Agency, where she helps service-based leaders lead with impact and create an environment that allows their teams to thrive. Laci's entrepreneurial journey has taken her down different paths, and she shares all of it and some of her work in Impactful Leadership in this episode! ENJOY!

Pursue Your Passion w. Aamira Garba. How reading The Alchemist Inspired her to Create her Wine Brand

Sun, 02 May 2021 19:55:51 GMT

My guest this week, was recently featured on FORBES! (Yes, you read that correctly, FORBES MAGAZINE). Aamira Garba is a MOOD!

Aamira is a graduate of Temple University, works as a Marketing Executive in the tech industry, and is the proud & dedicated mother of two beautiful girls.

At 30, she knew she was made for more than the life she had. After finally reading "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho, Aamira knew she had to stop searching for happiness and create it.

She knew she loved wine and enjoyed learning about it in her free time. So in 2016, she decided to pursue entrepreneurship while working full time to launch LOVELEE WINE: a brand that allows her to follow her passion for wine culture while creating a lane for more black women to enter the Wine & Spirits Industry.

Aamira's love for wine is infectious, and her commitment to empowering people with the tools to experience wine better is courageous. Please tune in to hear all about it. ENJOY!

To keep up with Aamira and all the exciting news of Lovelee Wine please follow her on instagram @loveleewine and BUY A BOTTLE OR TWO at https://loveleewine.securewinemerchant.com/store

Link to Forbes article: https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimwesterman/2021/03/31/the-wine-foundrys-custom-crush-program-makes-entrepreneurial-dreams-come-true/?sh=4a3f8fd4740b

Build Your Business Right (w. Chanda-Louise Oton)

Sun, 25 Apr 2021 19:58:18 GMT

This week, I am blessed to speak with one of the busiest and most hard-working entrepreneurs I know, Chanda-Lousie Oton!

Chanda is the FOUNDER of Chanda-Lousie Oton Consulting, a Project Management Services firm where she helps busy executives their time through a strategic VIP Project Management Session to create a schedule that aligns with their goals.

Chanda has a Bachelors' Degree in Statistics and a Masters' in Applied Statistics. She has always been analytical but wanted a space where she could be between the technical and business ends. So she transitioned into Project Management!

After years of working for a Fortune 100 company, she decided to level the corporate hustle to create her consulting firm.

In this conversation, Chanda gives an honest account of her experience while in consulting, how she prepared for and passed the PMP on her first attempt, how & why she decided to start her company when she did.

You can keep with Chanda (and you really should) on Instagram at @chandalousieoton or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/chandalouiseoton/ .

Enjoy!

Timestamp:

Background - 1:39

Consulting - 5:18

PMP Journey - 10:26

Starting CLO Consulting - 31:00

Advice for Entrepreneurs - 40:00

OTM Quote - 47:12

Q&A - BIRTHDAY EDITION

Sun, 18 Apr 2021 19:59:22 GMT

IT'S MY BIRTHDAY!!!

To commemorate my first birthday as a podcast host, I decided to do a very special and hilarious Q & A session!

Enjoy!

P.s.

for my audio folks, I highly recommend watching this episode on Youtube: link here: Go Oby, it's Yo Birthday (Q & A)
https://youtu.be/CT5roM7BBho (please remember to like, subscribe and share��)
I’m accepting all prayers and well wishes ��

Shout out to George Godwin (IG @grchesedfilm) for a mind blowing video editing job!

Show Up For Yourself (w. Tamera Darden)

Sun, 11 Apr 2021 20:00:50 GMT

My guest this week on the podcast is the HWIC of Darden Creative, Tamera Darden!

Tamera studied Fashion Merchandising and then went on to work at Macy's on the product development side. After years of corporate retail, she left corporate retail to start her own Content Creation Agency, Darden Creative!

AND She is also the founder of #ThePhotoCEO, where she teaches women how to create and set up their photography business for success!

In this episode, Tamera and I talk about the difference between product styling and product photography. The mistakes many brands make are why trying to save money and why it is essential to show up for yourself!

Keep up with Tamera and her awesomeness on Instagram @Tamera.Darden and @DardenCreative.

Soundbite:

Background - 3:25

Corporate Experience - 4:00

Product Photography Vs. Product Styling - 7:00

Why you need to hire an expert - 10:40

Finding Clients - 21:00

The Photo CEO - 26:00

Misconceptions about followers and money - 33:10

OTM Quote - 37:00

Make Each Step Purposeful (w. Jasmine Ohen)

Sun, 04 Apr 2021 20:02:21 GMT

This week on the pod is nonprofit founder, Chief Executive, and nonprofit startup coach Jasmine Ohen!

Jasmine studied dance and was en route to becoming a backup dancer for BEYONCE' (the real Beyonce') when she felt a calling to take a completely different path.

TODAY, she is the FOUNDER and CEO of HEEL YOURSELF , a nonprofit that exposes, empowers, and encourages young women to be transformed leaders in Christ.

In this episode, we talked about how my girl went from not knowing what a nonprofit is to becoming THE NONPROFIT STARTUP QUEEN. ENJOY!

To keep up with Jasmine and all the great things she is up to, please follow her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/jasmineohen/ and support Heel Yourself at https://www.instagram.com/heelyourselfinc/

Timestamp:

Background - 5:03

Professional Background Journey - 6:50

Studying Dance - 8:00

Heel Yourself - 13:00

The importance of having Coaches - 18:00

OTM Quote - 50:13

Please be sure to LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE if you enjoyed this episode and follow https://www.instagram.com/onthematterr/ to keep up with daily posts!

Love the Journey (w. Titi Sule)

Sun, 28 Mar 2021 20:03:47 GMT

This week on the pod, I interviewed THE renaissance woman Titi Sule. Titi is a wife, mother, full-time career woman, mentor, author, and all-around amazing.

She has a bachelor's in Electronic Engineering and a master's in Electrical Engineering. She currently serves as the Portfolio Leader for Controls and Technology, committed to mentoring young female engineers in the field.

Born and raised in Nigeria, Titi Sule loves to explore different countries and cultures and create educational content for children to learn.

She has authored several children's books under these series – Zaki & Zoltan Adventures and Konga.

This episode is not just an insight into Titi's journey; it is a masterclass on how she can wear so many hats so well. I learned so much and am confident that you will too! Enjoy!!

Keep up with Titi and her fabulosity on Instagram at @Tzsonline; her website is https://tzsonline.com , and her books are available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/s?k=titi+sule&ref=nb_sb_noss_1

Timestamps:

Background - 1:41

Mentoring - 4:22 and 22:00

Writing Children's Books - 4:40

Time Management - 7:00

Marriage Counseling - 9:30

Women of color at the workplace - 23:00

Her OTM Quote - 26:16

Please be sure to LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE if you enjoyed this episode and follow https://www.instagram.com/onthematterr/ to keep up with daily posts!

You Are Not Crazy: A Conversation about Diversity, Equity and Inclusion in the Workplace (w. Erica Edwards O’Neal)

Sun, 21 Mar 2021 20:06:47 GMT

On the podcast this week, it is my honor to chat with one of my mentors and favorite humans, Erica Edwards O'Neal. Erica is the founder and Principal of EEO consults, helping organizations develop more equitable, diverse, and inclusive workplaces.

Erica is a Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion Leader. She is also a Strategist, speaker, Consultant, and Attorney. She is an advocate committed to developing policies and programs to attract, retain and foster a diverse and inclusive workforce.

In this episode, she not only shares her experience and how she came to be a DEI thought leader and expert, but she also provides the uncensored truth about what diversity, equity, and inclusion is and is not.

If you have ever felt "some type of way" because of experiences you faced at the workplace due to your race, gender, religion, or sexual orientation, YOU ARE NOT CRAZY, and this conversation is for you. ENJOY.

To keep up with Erica, check her out on LinkedIn at http://linkedin.com/in/ericaedwardsoneal

Laugh out Loud (with Kyndra Crump)

Sun, 14 Mar 2021 20:08:06 GMT

This week, I speak with comedian, podcaster, and all-around excellent: Kyndra Crump on the podcast.

Kyndra was born and raised in Atlanta, Georgia. She wanted to be several things when she grew up (chief among them; professional chef and WWE wrestler). However, in time, she decided to follow her teacher's advice and lean into her natural ability to make people laugh.

Please tune in to hear our hilarious and inspiring conversation!

To keep up with Kyndra and her funny self, please follow her Instagram page @thekyndracrumpshow and her youtube channel Kyndra Crump.

Understand Your Why (w. Cora Miller)

Sun, 07 Mar 2021 21:09:30 GMT

This week on the podcast, I speak with Fonder and CEO of Young Kings Hair Care line, Cora Miller.

Cora was the VP of External Affairs for United Health Group, where she managed its corporate social responsibility initiatives.

As a first-time mom, she found herself with a beautiful baby boy with so much hair but could not find hair products to style it.

Bothered by the lack of representation of products for young black and brown boys, she decided to create YOUNG KINGS HAIR CARE: royally crafted plant-based vegan hair products fit for a young king.

Cora shares an honest account of creating products for retail and dishes on the good, the bad, and the ugly along the way.

Timestamp

Background - 1:20

The idea for Young Kinghair Care - 3:24

Research for Brand - 5:00

Launched - 9:44

Creation Process - 11:13

Creating a company with your spouse - 15:00

Funding/Find Capital for her business - 18:09

Encouragement for Beginning Entrepreneurs - 25:35

Journey to Target - 28:05

You are the Answer To Someone’s Prayer (w. Elder Esther Maurice)

Sun, 28 Feb 2021 21:11:02 GMT

Prepare to be BLESSED and ANOINTED this week because my guest on the podcast is Esther Maurice!

She is an Associate Pastor and founder of the Faithful Friends worship service at the Temple of Unified Christians Brick Church. She's been doing God's work for over eight years. She is committed to Empowering through Words, Challenging through Actions, Pursuing Purpose with Passion!

Elder Esther grew up in a Christian family. She is the youngest of 10 children. Esther shared what it was like growing up in a Christian household and the pressures/expectations. We also discussed how the pandemic affected many's prayer lives and why it is essential to keep God at the forefront of our lives.

Keep up with Esther on IG at @thestermaurice, her service every Sunday at @faithfulfriendsattuc, and her clothing appeal at @thenationshaker. She is also the author of 2 powerful devotionals, which are available on amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Faithful-Distractions-Overcoming-Constant-Interruptions-ebook/dp/B086M7MYM6/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&qid=1614549509&refinements=p_27%3AEsther+Maurice&s=digital-text&sr=1-2&text=Esther+Maurice+

Timestamp:

Background - 2:34

Applicability of the Gospel - 10:30

Crisis are temporary, don't lose hope - 16:10

Encouragement - 20:07

Prayer and Blessing - 30:00

Leveling Up: How to Overcome Impostor Syndrome (w. Dr. Claudia Marshall)

Sun, 21 Feb 2021 21:22:33 GMT

On the podcast this week, I speak with Dr. Claudia Marshall about IMPOSTOR SYNDROME!

Dr. Marshall is an Assistant Professor of Counseling, Licensed Professional Counselor, and Life Coach Passionate about reducing mental health stigma and helping individuals overcome IMPOSTOR SYNDROME.

Dr. Marshall is originally from Kingston, Jamaica, and in this episode, she shares her migration to the States and how she came to become a Licensed Professional Counselor!

We also had a DEEP conversation on Impostor Syndrome, the five ways it manifests, the intersectionality between race and gender: how it affects black man and women, and most importantly, how to overcome it!

Keep up with Dr. Marshall on IG at @dr_claudiacmarshall and via her website: www.marshallcoachingandmentoring.com .

Timestamp:

Background - 1:27

Religion & Therapy - 8:50

Definition of Impostor Syndrome - 10:20

History of Impostor Syndrome - 11:30

5 Ways Impostor Syndrome Manifest - 15:02

How to support and Encourage Someone experiencing it - 28:10

Building your support system - Impostor Syndrome Team - 32:30 (Researcher reference: Dr. Orbe-Austin)

Impostor Syndrome in Men - 37:50

Intersectionality between gender and race - 39

Dr. Marshall's Impostor Syndrome Journal: https://marshallcoachingandmentoring.com/shop/ols/products/i-belong-here-challenging-impostor-syndrome-through-journaling

Reimagining HomeOwnership (w. Nikki Merkerson)

Sun, 14 Feb 2021 21:23:54 GMT

Reimagining HomeOwnership (w. Nikki Merkerson)

OBY

SEASON: 3

EPISODE: 3

Description

This week, my guest is Nikki Merkerson!

Nikki is a Community Development and homeownership expert. She is a real estate investor, advocating for and empowering others to make smart investments.

Before Nikki purchased her first home, housing was an issue for her. She moved 22 times. At age 29, she bought her first home, and within eleven months, she purchased her second one.

She is the founder of Pairgap: an innovative web platform that matches ideal partners to one another to buy property together. Before pursuing her entrepreneurship ventures full-time, Nikki spent 23 years in the financial services industry. She most recently held the role of a Community Reinvestment Officer at JP Morgan Chase.

In this episode, Nikki shares her story about why she is passionate about empowering others to make smart investments and how real estate should be considered an instrument for creating generational wealth.

Keep up with Nikki on IG at @nikki_merkerson or directly on her website https://www.nikkimerkerson.com

Timestamps:

Introduction - 2:07

Professional Background - 3:48

Mortgage Banking - 4:20

PairGap - 6:26

Where the idea for Pairgap came from - 8:20

Article I referenced during our conversation:

https://www.bankrate.com/pdfs/pr/20190228-homebuyers-survey.pdf

Into the World of Beauty: Mind, Body & Soul (w. Taleah Griffin & Dunni Odumosu)

Sun, 07 Feb 2021 21:26:23 GMT

NEXT on the pod are my SISTERS FROM ANOTHER PODCAST: Taleah Griffin and Dunni Odumosu. Taleah is a professional model, actress, writer, and all-around storyteller & Beauty enthusiast! Dunni is a former cosmetic chemist and now a global biopharma professional & Beauty entrepreneur.

In December 2019, they met in Ghana during 'the Year of Return' and, in June 2020, created the podcast: Beauty Needs Me, where they feature conversations around Beauty as an experience rooted in the mind, body & soul. Since their launch, they have been nominated for an iheartradio award and featured on PopSugar! My fellow podcasters, they are not our mate LOL!

I love these ladies and everything they represent, but this conversation gave me a higher level of respect and admiration for them both! THEY ARE BOSSES!!!

In this episode, Dunni and Taleah give an honest account of how they met, how and why they created the podcast, their commitment to women empowerment, and sharing unpopular beauty stories.

Keep up with Dunni on IG @thedunnio and Taleah at @taleahgriffin. Keep in touch with Beauty Needs Me at @beautyneedsme or email them at beautyneedsme@gmail.com !

Timestamps:

Background - 1:56

Year of Return - 10:00

African Beauty - 19:40

How to approach people to be a guest on your podcast - 29:00

IheartRadio Nomination - 31:00

Their Contract - 36:00

What motivates them - 48:00

Book referenced: How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie

Living an Abundant Life (w. Crystal E. Ward)

Sun, 31 Jan 2021 21:29:09 GMT

To kick us off this season, my guest is Crystal E. Ward. Crystal is a former Senior Vice President at Citibank with almost 20 years of corporate experience in the financial services industry.

At the end of 2019, Crystal left her successful career to transition into full-time Ministry. She had felt a calling from God, and after praying about it (for 30 days), she decided to apply to Seminary and was accepted immediately.

Crystal is committed to helping individuals and organizations unlock and unpack their potential through motivational speaking, coaching, and workshops on various topics.

During our conversation, not only did she share her incredible journey, she took the time to bless us with a crash course on financial literacy!

You can reach out to Crystal at https://www.crystaleward.com or https://www.linkedin.com/in/crystaleward/

Timestamp:

Background - 4:00

Banking Experience - 4:50

Calling to Ministry - 11:10

Trusting God - 15:00

Intentional about your calling - 19:00

Financial Literacy - 22:17

Saving vs. Investing - 25:00

Personal Finance & Why you shouldn't compare to others - 29:00

Risk Tolerance - 31:00

Money as a Tool - 32:50

Discipline - 37:02

Should you have multiple saving accounts - 38:10

Paying off student loans - 43:00

Saving for Retirement - 45:00

Q&A

Sun, 27 Dec 2020 21:29:57 GMT

Hey OTM family! In my last episode of the year (and of this season), I decided to have a Q & A Session. Our community has grown significantly since the inaugural episode in June, 2020. So i wanted to use this opportunity to reset the room, answer a few frequently asked questions about myself, OTM and also share some plans I’m asking God to bless in 2021.

THANK YOU SOOO MUCH for all of the love and support this year! You made my year!

May God bless you abundantly and grant you an amazing and prosperous New Year!!

Live Out of Love (with Jeremy Wilson)

Sun, 20 Dec 2020 21:31:42 GMT

In the podcast this week, my guest is Mr. Jeremy Wilson. Jeremy is half-Hawaiian and Half indigenous of Canada and embodies the values of both backgrounds.

He grew with a passion for basketball and hoped to play professionally. However the dream was cut short due to an accident causing an injury, and eventually a downward spiral.

After years of substance abuse and hanging out with the wrong crowd, Jeremy got sober, got into shape (physically and mentally) and got it all the way together.

He is now a mental health coach & advocate and the Host of the Blood, Sweat & Tears Podcast where he interviews UFC Fighters.

Tune in to hear all about his fascinating story and learn why he believes that a life out of love is paramount to our mental and emotional well-being.

Keep up with Jeremy on IG at @lifeofJer_ and also on @bloodsweatandtearspodcast

Focus On Your Journey (with Ayebanoa Spiff)

Mon, 14 Dec 2020 21:32:57 GMT

In the episode this week is my conversation with Mr. Ayebanoa Spiff!

Ayebanoa studied International Business and is a Marketing enthusiast based in Nigeria.

He was so done with the pressures of social media (and seeing people only stunting for the gram), that he decided to share a few posts featuring positive conversations between him and his people.

These conversations led to the birth of his phenomenal podcast titled: The Waka So Far: A platform that shares amazing peoples’ stories in the hope of inspiring others.

Keep up with Ayebanoa and all of the amazing conversations and positive vibes he puts out on IG @thewakasofar

Getting Ahead (Cheating into the New Year)

Sun, 06 Dec 2020 21:36:46 GMT

It’s said that the best way to get ahead is to get started, to that end, in this episode, I am sharing my biggest secret and trick to getting ahead in the new year ��

Tune in to listen!

THANK YOU!

Wed, 25 Nov 2020 21:38:45 GMT

Have I told you all how appreciative I am for your love, support, and encouragement and for following me?

My episode today is my love gram to you.

Thank you for every follow, repost, like, share, episode download, GUEST APPEARANCE, comment, suggestion, podcast review, critique, note, message, phone call, EVERYTHING!

I don’t know what I am doing ��. At least once a day, I find myself wondering if I’m fooling myself with my podcast, this page or my YouTube channel (the imposter syndrome is REAL!)

But whenever I feel like giving up, someone somewhere reaches out with the most encouraging and kind words that keep me On this Matterr.

For this and everything, I’ll like to say THANK YOU SO MUCH! I am grateful to you. I don’t take you for granted. Your support means everything to me.

YOU are who I am grateful for and I pray that God continues to bless all which concerns you, in Jesus name, Amen.

Happy Thanksgiving My OTM Family ��

Dig Deeper (with Omowumi Abimbola Akintolayo)

Sun, 15 Nov 2020 21:40:08 GMT

In this week's podcast is the Executive Coach and Industrial/Organizational Psychologist, Omowumi Abimbola Akintolayo.

Born with a natural talent to command respect and admiration of everyone in the room, she combined this skill with her desire to help people into a successful business: Leaders Lane, an Executive Coaching and Motivational Boutique.

In this episode, not only does Wumi share her journey, she shares how to use positive psychology to dig deeper to unlock your highest potential.

Enjoy!

To keep with Wumi and her new exciting news with Leaders Lane, please visit https://leaders-lane.com or @leaders_lane

You Have to Hustle (with Wura Manola)

Sun, 08 Nov 2020 21:41:38 GMT

On thé podcast this week is Weddingprenuer and Events & Wedding Influencer, Wura Manola.

Wura is an International Weddings & Events planner. She is the Founder of & Creative Wedding Director at Manola Luxe Weddings, Owner & Wedding blogger of thé Get Wedding Ready YouTuber Channel, and the Founder & Host of the Bridal Brunch Events.

Growing up, she knew she wanted to start her own business, just like her dad, it didn’t know what it’ll be in.

Soon her love for birthday parties, weddings, and other events combined with her degrees in International Business led to the creation of her growing Empire.

In the episode this week, Wura shares how she started, how it’s going, and everything in between.

Enjoy!

You can keep up with Wura and her awesomeness on Instagram @WuraManola

Self Kindness (with Vaneeta Kaur)

Sun, 01 Nov 2020 21:44:13 GMT

My guest on my podcast is Vaneeta Kaur.

Vaneeta is a creative writer, author, and emotional wellness advocate. As someone who deals with chronic pain due to a rare condition, self-care is an essential part of her daily life. Vaneeta was kind enough to share her experience with her condition and how that led to anxiety and depression at such a young age.

As a coping mechanism and emotional outlet, she started writing. At 17, she began her first novel Broken Branches and the sequel is due to release soon. The Silver Lining Series is a supernatural contemporary fictional romance that emphasizes gratefulness, love, forgiveness, happiness and so much more.

Through her creative writing on social media she encourages kindness, compassion, empathy, self-care, and wholeness. She also shares her own experiences from her emotional wellness journey.

I learned so much from our conversation, and I hope you tune in to do the same.

Keep up with Vaneeta on IG at @missvaneetakaur or click here for her book and website: https://linktr.ee/vaneetakaur

Support the show

Experience the Pain - Healing after Infant/Pregnancy Loss

Sun, 18 Oct 2020 20:45:09 GMT

"In 1988, US President Ronald Reagan declared October as a month to recognize the unique grief of bereaved parents in an effort to demonstrate support to the many families who have suffered such a tragic loss ." ( starlegacyfoundation.org )

To commemorate this and bring awareness and support, I speak with a brave young woman who experienced this loss in the first year of her marriage. She is beautiful, inside and out. Strong, REAL, honest, brilliant and a powerful woman of God. Out of respect for her and her privacy, I will not reveal who she is.

In the episode this week, she (whom I refer to as "nne" throughout the conversation) shares the journey of her first pregnancy, her loss, her healing, and God, her husband & her family, and friends supported her all the way through.

If you have any questions about this episode, please feel free to reach out to me at OntheMatterr@gmail.com or on Instagram at @Onthematterr

Thank you so much!

Chase Your Curiosity (with Busayo Olupona)

Sun, 11 Oct 2020 20:46:34 GMT

From selling clothes from underneath her bed to selling out pieces and a full-blown exhibit at Nordstorm, Busayo Olupona is determination personified.

She is an attorney, designer, podcast host, traveler, cultural curator, exceptional storyteller, and BOSS BABE.

Busayo was a corporate associate at a top tier NYC law firm for years when she started to feel like something was missing. Her love for fashion, a mind for business, and desire for a creative outlet lead to the creation of her beautiful clothing line, BUSAYO NYC.

In the episode this week, Busayo shares her journey with BUSAYO NYC. She touched on everything from growing up in Nigeria to her family's migration back to the States. We spoke about family, culture, entrepreneurship, spirituality, mentorship, BALOGUN, EVERYTHING!!

Enjoy!!

Keep up with all the fantastic things Busayo is doing on IG at @Busayonyc. Her website is www.busayonyc.com .

Podcast Host: Oby Chiapa. Keep up with her and other incredible guests at @onthematterr or email at @ onthematterr@gmail.com

Sources referenced:
Poem by Kahlil Gilran - On Children

Book by Mary Gehlhar - The Fashion Designer Survival Guide

Be Intentional (with Tiffany-Ann Taylor)

Sun, 04 Oct 2020 20:47:37 GMT

Tiffany-Ann is the Deputy Director of Freight Programs, Education, and Research for the Freight Mobility Unit at the New York City Department of Transportation.

She is passionate about Urban Planning, as it relates to transportation and infrastructure, emergency management, environmental sustainability, diversity, inclusion, and equity.

In 2017, she attended a conference and was soo disappointed by the lack of diversity that SHE CREATED HER OWN called Hindsight.

In the episode this week, Tiffany shares what made her become an Urban Planner, her experience in creating and planning this conference, and the importance of asking for what you need.
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Keep up with Tiffany and all of the fantastic things with Hindsight at @divcomm and Hindsightcon.com

Just Launch (with Christine Irvinlyn)

Sun, 27 Sep 2020 20:48:59 GMT

Christine Irvinlyn is an esteemed Financial Manager at a prestigious Economic Development Corporation in New York City. On her quest to restock on her body lotion, on a cold winter day, she took a look at the ingredients of a popular brand and saw that it was full of toxic chemical compounds. That very day, she decided to create products with natural ingredients for herself. Over time, she shared them with family and friends. And today has a Vegan Skin Care line, called Angella Irving.

In this episode, Christine shares her beautiful story of how she made this happen and what drives her determination to succeed.

Learn more about Christine and her skincare line on Instagram @angellairving. Her products are available for purchase on angellairving.com . I highly recommend the "Satin Sheen" body oil. After a long shower, it leaves your skin feeling soft as satin ��

Know Who You Are (with Chinonyelum Udoye)

Sun, 20 Sep 2020 20:50:39 GMT

This episode is my first podcast interview ever and it is such a blessing to kick off with such an amazing guest, Chinonyelum Udoye. “Chi Chi” is the author of the book titled Make that Move: Practice. A book that encourages children to practice, to believe in themselves and realize anything they desire.

In this episode, Chi Chi shares the inspiration behind writing this book and the importance of knowing who you are, in order to achieve your life's purpose.

Keep up with Chi Chi on IG @make_that_move_enterprise and her book is available for purchase on Amazon at: https://www.amazon.com/Make-That-Move-Chinonyelum-Udoye-ebook/dp/B07BWFNTJ1/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1589479448&sr=8-1-fkmr0

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Lessons Learned

Thu, 17 Sep 2020 20:51:21 GMT

A few weeks after paying off my credit card, I decided to share some of the lessons I learned all the way. Enjoy

VICTORY

Sun, 13 Sep 2020 20:52:14 GMT

Brothers and sisters, on January 1, 2020, I had $18,188.60 in credit card debt and on April, 24, 2020, through the GRACE OF GOD, I am elated to report that it is PAID IN FULL ��‍♀️��.

In this episode, I captured the moment of how I felt when I woke up early that morning, opened the Chase app and saw that my “Current balance” was $0.00!!!!! I hope you tune in to hear my SINCERE JOY!

Delayed Not Denied

Sun, 06 Sep 2020 20:53:03 GMT

In the episode this week (originally recorded: April 21, 2020), it’s one week past my originally intended deadline of paying off my #ChaseFreedomCreditCard by, and I’m a little over the place, emotionally.

On one hand, I am disappointed in myself for missing my own darn deadline. And on the other hand, I am proud of myself for staying #onthematterr (so much so that I am already on #LV’s site, causally perusing for a nice congratulatory gift ��).

Please tune in and ENJOY!

The New Normal

Sun, 30 Aug 2020 20:54:08 GMT

In the episode, originally recorded on March 30, 2020, I give a brief update on how the pandemic had changed things for me and how much I have left to pay on my #ChaseFreedomCard. Enjoy

It’s Okay To Not Be Okay

Sun, 23 Aug 2020 20:54:52 GMT

After my meltdown in the previous episode, I went to Atlanta to visit my cousin. She and her best friend really took care of me and their energy really rejuvenated my spirit and gave me what I needed to keep on keeping on.

In the episode (originally recorded on March 16, 2020), I talk about how it’s okay to not be okay. Life WILL knock you down. The beauty comes when you get back up and Stay On The Matterr. Enjoy ☺️

Houdini

Sun, 16 Aug 2020 20:55:44 GMT

Throughout this journey, I’ve laughed and made jokes about how I’ve made my paycheck disappear. In order to successfully meet my goal, I made my credit card payments as soon as I got paid. However, this process was not funny. There were times I cried about how hard it was to keep going and got mad at myself for allowing my credit card debt to get so high.

In the spirit of honesty and full disclosure, I captured it in this episode... Let me know what you think.

Going through the Motions

Sun, 09 Aug 2020 20:56:34 GMT

In this episode, I’m going through the motions of my journey towards financial freedom. I talk about my love hate relationship I have with the $50 a week budget, reactions of friends and family about what I’m doing and why I decided to wait until I was done paying off my credit cards before I released this podcast.... Enjoy!

A’s and F’s (Wins and A huge L)

Sun, 02 Aug 2020 20:57:24 GMT

Okay so it’s the end of February 2020 and I made my February target. Which means that I’d paid off half of what I owed on my Chase Credit card! HOLLER!!! In the episode, I talk about how much harder it’s becoming to stay on my matter and a huge mistake I made earlier in the month ��.

Adjustments and Updates

Sun, 26 Jul 2020 20:59:22 GMT

It’s the middle of February and I made a significant progress towards paying off my credit card. In this episode, I give an update of how much I had paid off thus far and everything else that went down along the way.

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Still On It

Sun, 19 Jul 2020 21:00:53 GMT

Although I was off to a rocky start, after a month, I kinda sorta got a handle of things. Originally recorded February 6, 2020, in this episode I explain what I’ve been doing to stay within my $50 a week budget. I hope you tune in!

Fighting Temptations

Sun, 12 Jul 2020 21:01:28 GMT

Why is it that whenever we try to do the right thing, life happens and creates opportunities that could set us up for failure? In the episode this week, I summarize how January went down and my fight against all of the temptations along the way.

Originally recorded: January 31, 2020

The Relapse

Sun, 05 Jul 2020 21:02:19 GMT

Have you ever heard of someone went on an extreme diet and lost a ton of weight, only to relapse and gain more weight then before? This episode is my version ��. Enjoy!

Money Psychology

Sun, 28 Jun 2020 21:03:04 GMT

Set a goal, they say! Create a budget, they say! But how many times do you hear anything about your ‘money psychology’ that is, what and when makes you spend the way you do? In this episode I explain what I am learning about myself and my budget and why I must do better if I’m going to succeed with my “Matterr” Enjoy!

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Originally recorded January 13, 2020
Resources: I Will Teach You To Be Rich by Ramit Sethi. @Ramit

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Challenge Accepted

Sun, 21 Jun 2020 21:03:46 GMT

When a friend of mine suggested the $50 a week challenge as a strategy to help pay down my debt, I couldn’t resist. In this episode, I explain exactly how my first attempt went down. Enjoy!

Originally recorded January 6, 2020.

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Full Disclosure - How much I owed.

Sun, 14 Jun 2020 21:04:47 GMT

In the inaugural episode of the On the Matterr Podcast, I introduce myself and share exactly how much I owed In credit card and student loans debt.

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Originally recorded: January 6, 2020
Resources referenced: www.bankrate.com

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Welcome to On The Matterr - Trailer

Sun, 07 Jun 2020 21:05:41 GMT

Hello and Welcome to the On thé Matterr Podcast! My name is Oby and I am a story teller.

I strongly believe there is power in a shared story. In line with this, I felt inspired to provide a platform for us to tell our stories, to motivate and encourage each other as we build towards our individual goals, with the hope that it can influence another to reach and surpass milestones and build dreams into reality.

To kick us off, I start with a quick introduction and a goal of my own. Enjoy!

Originally recorded: January 6, 2020
Resources:
Book: I Will Teach You to Be Rich by Ramit Sethi
Www.Bankrate.com